tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26101383109936731022024-03-13T00:27:18.032-04:00That's How I Rollfollowing the journey of kristina rhoadesAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-66800427354422391872012-09-28T11:36:00.000-04:002012-09-28T11:36:32.344-04:00A Trip of a Lifetime to Sweden<br />
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three weeks traveling around Sweden and couldn't have asked for a better
trip. From a Swedish crayfish festival, to private tours of the
Parliament and two City Halls, to making new friends and growing much
closer to old ones, to a natural-habitat zoo and seeing some of Sweden's
most beautiful landscapes, it was an experience we'll never forget. <br />
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was honored to had been invited to Sweden to speak to two groups by a
family who has just started a positive-thinking blog for people with
disabilities. Here's the <a href="http://translate.google.com/translate?sl=auto&tl=en&js=n&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&layout=2&eotf=1&u=http%3A%2F%2Fmittfunktionshinder.se%2Fblog%2F2012%2F09%2F07%2Finspirations-forelasning%2F&act=url" target="_blank">post</a>
on the site following one of our events. I spoke to both groups about
my story, as well as disability in America and the importance of a
positive attitude. As I often do in my motivational speeches, I also
talked about overcoming challenges and believing in your own abilities. I
was proud to have the opportunity to speak with my friend and mentor <a href="http://davidlega.com/en/" target="_blank">David Lega</a>,
who in the recent past was recognized as Sweden's speaker of the year. We have the same attitude, drive and passion for life. We're kindred souls and made a great team.<br />
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speaking of our similarities, I have to take a moment to say how
thankful we are to have David as our lifelong friend. He opened his home
to us for three weeks, showed us his country, introduced us to his
friends, family and colleagues, and each day we grew closer than we were
before. One of my favorite things about David is that simply knowing
him challenges me - and everyone else around him - to be a better person. And I love that when we're together we laugh a lot. I don't know how many nights Jacob and I went
to bed with sore bellies and cheeks from laughing so hard.<br />
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We tried to soak up the history that pulsed throughout Sweden. I guess if you live
there, it may be normal, but to us it was often breathtaking. We saw
churches and castles and landmarks that were up to 800 years old! It seemed everywhere we looked there was special detail and some kind of story. It really made us realize just how young our country is. Some of the landscapes reminded me of places I've seen in the U.S., and others were unlike anything I've seen before. It was interesting experiencing the culture, too. Lots of conversions of measurements and temperatures and money! We would have been lost without a few iPhone apps! We picked up a few words in Swedish, but didn't have to learn much since most everyone spoke great English.<br />
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I wish I could better describe what a surreal experience it was. We can't wait to return and in the mean time, we'll stay in touch with the great new friends we made across the world. For now, we're home and back to traveling the country with VPG. Next week we're off to Fort Lauderdale for a few days and have an exciting schedule coming up the next few months. Stay tuned!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-6972312483467041562012-06-11T21:00:00.001-04:002012-06-11T21:00:59.679-04:00A Sweet MomentMy life is amazing. I'm sitting here in First Class on a flight back from a modeling shoot in Pittsburgh. It was a quick trip and so much fun and now, I'm heading back home to my family. <br />
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As I lounge in my comfortable seat, listening to my favorite songs on my iPhone, and staring out the window at the most beautiful view of the tops of clouds, I find myself in a moment that is worth recognizing. It's nearing sunset, so the light is that golden color that just takes my breath away.<br />
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I had to jot down a couple words because as I sat here, I found myself thinking, how did I get so lucky?! At 28, my life has already become more than I could have dreamed. And this is just the beginning of the really good stuff. From my job and experiences, to my sweet husband and precious baby girl, I'm taken aback by the wonderful gifts in my life. I'm thankful for every single moment, and all those that led up to this point. The journey that lies ahead is so exciting, I can barely believe it. <br />
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And that's all for now. I just had to get these thoughts out and I figured the nice gentleman sitting next to me probably didn't want to listen to all this.<br />
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I'll give an update on being a Mommy on wheels soon, plus, some exciting news about a big change coming up for us! Bye, for now!<div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-RywUrLRIZgU/T9aUx3tv9MI/AAAAAAAAAVU/JDUc-AFvO98/s640/blogger-image--1833938558.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-RywUrLRIZgU/T9aUx3tv9MI/AAAAAAAAAVU/JDUc-AFvO98/s640/blogger-image--1833938558.jpg" /></a></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-8778429545147883682012-04-27T20:09:00.003-04:002012-04-27T20:14:57.200-04:00Experiencing the MV-1 in NYC<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Not even a week after my last day at Brenau, my family and I were off to New York City. I was asked to be a spokesperson and model for the new MV-1 at the New York International Auto Show. It was a busy and exciting 11 days. Kamryn did so awesome and we made a new family in the great people that work for the Vehicle Production Group (VPG).<br />
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Let me tell you a little bit about VPG and why they're such an awesome company. First, they are a new American manufacturer. The MV-1 is built in the USA, on the old Hummer 2 line. That is exciting, in and of itself! Second, it's the first American car to have the option to run on natural fuel, or CNG. The Compressed Natural Gas is not only safer and better for the environment, but it typically runs about half the cost of gasoline! Can't beat that! Third, and probably the best part from a personal standpoint, is the fact that the MV-1 is the only vehicle in the world to be built from the ground-up to be accessible for everyone! Not just wheelchair users, but scooters, power chairs, strollers and anything else that may need some extra room!<br />
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rQu8q39Giak/T5sr7o7-z5I/AAAAAAAAATo/6OFWkf1Sy2c/s1600/IMG_0037.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rQu8q39Giak/T5sr7o7-z5I/AAAAAAAAATo/6OFWkf1Sy2c/s320/IMG_0037.JPG" width="320" /></a>The MV-1 is not only accessible, but it actually meets, or even exceeds, all the standards of the Americans with Disabilities Act. Now, consider what it means to be the first vehicle to actually be built that way. Other accessible vehicles that are available on the market are aftermarket conversions. The MV-1 is not a conversion; not an afterthought. People like me have been considered in the design and creation of this vehicle, which means it is well thought-out, as well as safety-tested. No one is cutting into the side, floor or frame to make a modification. It's about time.<br />
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And I must say, not only is it refreshing to have a car manufacturer considering the needs of a broader audience, but it's also just wonderful to have an option besides a mini van! I'm thrilled to know there's a vehicle, that looks cool AND can work for me and my family! In fact, one of the best parts of the auto show was witnessing and experiencing the excitement about the MV-1 and seeing, with my own eyes, just how many people's lives could benefit from this vehicle. Plus, did I mention how awesome it is to have a new American car manufacturer putting Americans to work? Pretty awesome.<br />
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Only weeks into my new career change and things are as exciting as ever. Our sweet baby girl is growing everyday and really becoming a little character. She is generous with her pretty little smile and getting good at giggling. Jacob and I are thankful every single day for how perfect our family is. We're on an exciting ride together and I can't wait to see what's around the corner! I'll keep you posted!<br />
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<i>Like the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/mv1" target="_blank">MV-1 on Facebook</a></i> <i>and check out their website <a href="http://www.vpgautos.com/" target="_blank">here</a>!</i><br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-64931463326389610082012-03-03T18:57:00.000-05:002012-03-03T19:03:08.781-05:00Kamryn's First Big Outing<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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People
say how fast kids grow, but I guess I never realized just how quickly
until I began watching it happen right before my very eyes. I can't
believe that our baby girl is already almost 4 months old! I still
remember the overwhelming joy and disbelief I felt when I found out I
was pregnant. While, in a way, that feels like just yesterday, it also
seems completely foreign to imagine a time without Kamryn Marlee. She's
the center of our world.<br />
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Kamryn is becoming more and more engaged and curious. She's expressing
her personality and getting so strong. She's gripping everything and
standing up so well! And her balance is getting way better, which is
helping her get really comfortable riding in my lap. She's also getting
heavier by the day! I can tell I'm going to have to work on my core
strength to keep up with her. I love that she's going to challenge me to
keep building my strength and balance in order to take care of her,
which is just going to make me more capable in all areas of my life.
We're better people because of her. <br />
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February 17-19, <a href="http://abilitiesexpo.com/" target="_blank">Abilities Expo</a> came to Atlanta! If you are unfamiliar
with Abilities Expo, allow me to fill you in. It is an exposition
showcasing the leading products, services and technologies available to
the disability community. All free, the event includes wonderful
workshops and interactive events, such as adaptive sports, wheelchair
hip-hop dancing, companion dog demos and so much more. I first attended
Abilities Expo in LA in 2005, when I held the title of Ms. Wheelchair
California. Since then, Jacob and I have been fortunate to work with
several companies, such as <a href="http://www.colourswheelchair.com/" target="_blank">Colours Wheelchair</a> and <a href="http://www.legawear.com/" target="_blank">LegaWear</a>, and attend
many of the shows throughout the country. Today, I'm proud to be an
ambassador for Abilities Expo, doing what I can do spread the word about
this fantastic, inspirational event.<br />
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There are so many
reasons I love Abilities Expo, but near the top of my list is the
opportunity to network and socialize with the disability community. It's
a close-knit, dynamic group of people and I always leave the shows
feeling motivated and energized. After going to many shows, Jacob and I
feel like there's a mini reunion in every show we attend. So, needless
to say, we were so proud to introduce Kamryn to this important part of
our community.<br />
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couldn't have been more proud of our sweet baby girl. She stayed with
us at the show all three days and was such a trooper! If you've ever
attended an Abilities Expo, you know that it can sometimes be loud, with
big lights, interesting sights and many, many people (nearly 2,500
people - not counting kids - were in attendance this year in Atlanta).
As you may imagine, we weren't sure how Kamryn would handle it. We're
not sticklers for sticking to a schedule, but nonetheless, we weren't
sure if she would even be able to nap or if she would simply get
over-stimulated. As it turned out, she loved every second of it. Most of
the show, she was either riding around in my lap - securely fastened
with a swaddle blanket, tied in a knot, or she was riding on Jacob's
chest in her little backpack. She took in everything and slept better
than ever before.<br />
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We were so happy that our first
major, extended outing was a real success! We're looking forward to
several great trips we have coming up before Kamryn's first birthday. I
can only imagine the three of us trying to manage all of our stuff and
get where we need to be as we travel, but like always - we'll find a
way. And we'll make the best memories.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i>Find out more about Abilities Expo and when they're coming to a city near you. Click <a href="http://abilitiesexpo.com/" target="_blank">here</a>.</i></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-77166524163776855642012-01-22T18:14:00.001-05:002012-01-22T18:21:19.790-05:00Discovering My Inner Mommy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Each moment with Kamryn Marlee is better than the last. Jacob and I can't believe she's already over 10 weeks old! We're loving every second of being parents and enjoying watching our rapidly changing baby girl. It's hard to imagine our lives before her.<br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-191XT6JfZSk/TxyM77aTHfI/AAAAAAAAAPE/8dXtcCypQTI/s1600/IMG_0154.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-191XT6JfZSk/TxyM77aTHfI/AAAAAAAAAPE/8dXtcCypQTI/s320/IMG_0154.jpg" width="212" /></a>If you're a parent, you know that having a child makes every experience more special. The holiday memories we made this year will be some of my most treasured. Kamryn joined us in a little bassinet at the Thanksgiving dinner table and held hands with us for the prayer. We loved opening presents with her at Grandma and Grandpa's on Christmas morning and checking out all the wonderful gifts from our generous family. At midnight, New Years Eve, the three of us sat up together in bed and I cried as Kamryn's bright eyes watched the ball drop. People were right... Our lives will never be the same. And I'm so thankful. <br />
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Learning to be a Mommy has been wonderful, and Kamryn's a great teacher. She's being patient with me as I figure out how to do everything - and there's still a lot to learn. Luckily, Jacob was home with us for the first few weeks, but since then, I've had quite a few opportunities to be alone with our baby girl. At first, it was a little scary. I noticed that when she would cry, it was natural for Jacob or my Mom to get up and walk her around. I was fearful that alone, I wouldn't be able to calm her if she got to crying hard. I even wondered briefly if I had the ability to take care of her on my own. I mean, a good mother should be able to take care of her own daughter, right? But, before I knew it, any doubts I had were gone.<br />
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In the early weeks, it did feel awkward trying to wheel around with Kamryn in my lap. She was so little and I was still getting the hang of how to handle her. Now that I know she's not going to break and now that she's starting to hold her head up on her own and sit up a little better, things are much easier. Being able to get up in my wheelchair with her gives me much more freedom when I'm alone, so I don't feel so trapped. Plus, Jacob modified a changing table so it's nice and low for us. I have even found ways to soothe her that don't involve walking. For example, she loves to bounce, and fortunately, I have pretty strong arms. I'd say we're becoming a pretty good team already. I can tell, even now, that she will adapt as needed to work with a Mommy on wheels... and it's a beautiful thing.<br />
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We live for her little smiles. It's so cool that we're already starting to see her personality. I can tell she has a strong but mellow spirit like her Mom and Dad. Her muscles are growing stronger by the day and the noises she's able to make are increasing all the time. And, boy, does she love her Daddy. I look forward to every day and helping nurture and support our little angel in each phase of her life.<br />
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As far as my personal health, I'm feeling great. I've even been back to the gym a couple times and it felt amazing. I'm getting stronger so I can hit the ground running when I get back with my personal trainer. Jacob's getting back to the gym again, as well. We're excited to do some 5K's this year as a family. Also, now that we have a bit more of a schedule, we're able to cook more and eat better, too. Life is good!<br />
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Thanks for reading! I will continue to share my experience of being a mother on wheels, including any tips I discover and more. Talk to you soon!<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-39054927749702908142011-12-29T16:06:00.003-05:002011-12-29T16:09:18.556-05:00The Birth of Kamryn Marlee Rhoades - 11-11-11<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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First, please accept my apologies for taking so very long to update my blog. Many of you know by now that we welcomed our beautiful daughter, Kamryn Marlee Rhoades, on November 11, 2011. It confirmed how special we already knew she was when she came on such a unique day. She's an absolute miracle.<br />
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Kamryn was a month early and joined us on a full moon. According to my Mom, it was the same exact story with me when I was born. On Thursday, the 10th, I went in for my routine check up to monitor my contractions and baby's activity. For the preceding three days, I had been having pretty regular contractions. After the exam, my doctor determined that, although I hadn't really progressed, that my contractions were too regular to send me home. She decided to keep me in the hospital overnight just to monitor things. It was purely a precautionary measure due to my lack of feeling. Jacob was working on a job about an hour and a half away and wasn't able to get there until late, so my Mom accompanied me to the hospital.<br />
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As the night went on, the contractions got more intense and really consistent - often, only a couple minutes apart. As things intensified, so did my muscles spasms and dysreflexia. In other words, my body was creating a lot of physical stress in an attempt to warn me that something major was going on beneath my feeling line. As it turns out, these warning signs make me feel really, really crappy. My legs were in spasms like I've never seen before, I was sweating like crazy below my feeling line (which is a response from my nervous system), and I was extremely nauseous. And in all of it, I began to worry that in the midst of my body trying to warn of pain, that it would create too much stress on the baby.<br />
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When things were only slightly better in the morning, but I hadn't progressed in labor, my doctor decided it would be best for me to remain in the hospital until the baby came - even if that meant two or three more weeks. That was news I wasn't thrilled to hear, especially if I continued to feel that way. However, before I knew it, things took a sharp turn. The nurse walked in and while I was expecting her to suggest some sort of medicine I didn't really want to take to help with the pain and spasms, she said something completely unexpected. She explained that she had just spoken with my doctor, who had just consulted my high-risk physician, who had recommended that we go ahead with a c-section that day! The procedure was scheduled for only two hours away! I burst into tears. We were utterly stunned.<br />
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Our wish was to have Jacob in the room and me to be awake when they performed the c-section, but after they had trouble with the epidural, my doctor decided to just proceed with putting me under. The procedure was so quick! Baby and I were both healthy and back in the room with our family in less than an hour. I remember being wheeled back in and seeing Jacob holding Kamryn. It was a sight I always dreamed of and that I'll never forget. When he laid her in my arms, it was surreal. Time stood still. I don't have words to describe the emotions I felt. <br />
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We spent the next three days learning some baby basics, learning how to breast-feed and enjoying the most beautiful mountain view from our hospital room. The experience was wonderful. We soaked up every second of it. There was one particular moment on the second night that will be with me forever. Jacob, Kamryn and I were all laying together in the hospital bed, listening to a playlist I had made before hand and the perfect song was on. I remember just becoming completely overwhelmed with love on a level that I had never felt before. I'd been told that would happen, but experiencing it is something completely different.<br />
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With both of us recovering well, with no unexpected health issues, we came home on Monday. I think that was the shortest hospital stay I've ever had. Being home has been great. I was on bed rest for the first two weeks; just to be extra careful (again, due to the lack of feeling where the incision is). While it was a little slow getting back up in my chair after being down so long before and after the delivery, I'm pretty much back to my old self now. I have quite a bit of strength to get back, though, so I look forward to getting back to the gym.<br />
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-XQXWnknGR5w/TvzVp9QoP4I/AAAAAAAAAOo/00z0qODyuV8/s1600/Our+Family+First+Day.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-XQXWnknGR5w/TvzVp9QoP4I/AAAAAAAAAOo/00z0qODyuV8/s400/Our+Family+First+Day.jpg" width="400" /></a>I couldn't have done any of this without my sweet husband. Since we have been home, Jacob has been taking the best care of both of us. He is the most natural father and even better at all this than I imagined he'd be. Kamryn and I are so lucky to have him, it brings tears to my eyes on a regular basis. I am so thankful for our perfect little family. Also, my Mom and Dad have provided much-needed support when Daddy has had to work.<br />
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Kamryn's calling, so that's all the time I have for now! Look for my next posting as I take you along with me in this journey of motherhood on wheels. I have a lot to learn and am excited to share. Merry Christmas and a Happy, Happy New Year!<br />
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This week, it really started to sink in that we will meet our baby girl very soon. Somehow, it's already almost time. After my contractions continued throughout the week, I went in for an early visit to the doc. Everything checked out great, but to try and prevent an early labor, my doctor asked that I stay home on bed-rest for the remainder of my pregnancy. While I hate leaving work early, I am proud I made it this far (only 3 1/2 weeks to go) - feeling great, with no complications. Plus, I'll be able to work a little bit from home. I've only been out a few days, and I have to admit that the lack of activity has helped. I'll be sure to appreciate this time I have to relax before it's time to be a mommy.<br />
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To ensure everything is on track, in the case that this baby does decide to come early, we went for our last ultrasound. All was perfect with her growth and she's even in the right position (for the time being)! And, we were surprised to learn that they estimate she is already 6 pounds, 1 ounce! Wow - what a healthy little girl! They did the 3D ultrasound, which was just so awesome. It was an amazing feeling staring at little Kamryn Marlee in my belly, squirming around, waiting to come into the world.<br />
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So, it's evident that there's not long now. Her clothes are washed, the car-seat is installed in my new car and our bags are just about packed for the hospital. We couldn't be happier. Any occasional discomfort I feel or trouble I have getting around seem so insignificant compared to the excitement I feel for the upcoming birth of our daughter. Plus, I'm so thankful for such a helpful, happy husband that is making this experience what it is.<br />
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Well,
we have had a fast-paced, event-filled couple weeks! As I've mentioned
before, things seems to be falling right into place, just at the right
time. I'm over 34 weeks along and have just over 4 weeks until the
scheduled delivery of our baby girl. We're so excited. One of the most
exciting new developments is that we've decided on a name. On November
30th (or before), we can't wait to welcome Kamryn Marlee Rhoades into
this world!<br />
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So, I'm absolutely thrilled to share the news of my
new car! Those that know me personally know that I love cars and drove a
red truck with flames on it (affectionately called my "Hotwheels"
truck) for the last 10 years. It was all equipped with hand controls and
a lift from <a href="http://www.bruno.com/">Bruno Independent Living Aids, Inc.</a>,
and it worked perfectly for me. Plus, it was paid off, which was nice.
When the motor went out for the second time in February, I was pretty
bummed. Not long after, I found out I was pregnant. Suddenly being faced
with having to find a new vehicle that would be accessible for me, work
with a new baby, accommodate my wheelchair and my companion dog <i>and </i>be
affordable was challenging, to say the least. However, we were able to
work with a fantastic local dealership, that also modifies vehicles, and
just a few days ago, I drove home my new Mazda 5. <i>Zoom zoom.</i><br />
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My new "compact wagon" is really cool, although a big change from what I'm used to. The little lift (by <a href="http://www.adapt-solutions.ca/index.php">Adapt Solutions</a>)
tucks my wheelchair snugly behind my driver's seat, leaving four seats
open for passengers - one, of course, already reserved for a car seat.
It drives great and fits me like a glove. I want to extend my sincerest
thanks to the great people at <a href="http://www.miltonmartinhonda.com/">Milton Martin Honda</a>
in Gainesville, Georgia, as well as all the others that helped make
this happen! I'm so fortunate to be surrounded by this wonderful
community and SO happy to be independent again!<br />
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In the
last week and a half we've attended two awesome baby showers! The
first, hosted by my Aunt and Uncle, was a beautiful dinner party -
complete with our own chefs! This past weekend, two of my closest
friends hosted a perfect little afternoon get-together. We got so many
adorable baby gifts and have had a blast checking each item out in great
detail. But, the best part about both parties was spending time with
the best people we know and seeing how much love they all already have
for our baby girl. She is surrounded by love.<br />
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While I'm still feeling considerably well, over the
past week, I've been experiencing some increased Braxton Hicks, or
"practice contractions." Exams at the doctor have gone well, with me
showing no signs of labor. However, over the past two days, increased
activity or even a hint of dehydration will increase my contractions -
which we don't want at this point. So, the doctor advised me to reduce
activity, drink as much water as I can stand and pay close attention to
my body. It's difficult to back off when there's so much to do, but I
know it's what needs to happen right now. My most important job is to
take care of this baby. So, I'll continue on this path and take the next
few weeks one day at a time - and make sure to keep on smiling.<br />
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It's amazing that it's already November and that we'll meet little Kamryn Marlee <i>this </i>month. I'm looking forward to the holidays this year with a new and special excitement. Enjoy your week and thanks for reading!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-20651585579778520542011-10-19T21:15:00.001-04:002011-10-21T11:38:53.510-04:006 Weeks To Go...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Things are getting so very exciting! I am nearing 33 weeks along and doing fantastic. I remember thinking at the very beginning of this pregnancy - I'm talking in the first few weeks - that it seemed like an eternity until our baby would be born. Since then, time has flown by and it's so evident that she'll be here before we know it.<br />
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We've been seeing my OBGYN twice a week and have had nothing but good news at each check-up. Also, she has picked a date that we'll have the baby (that's if she hasn't decided to join us before then). On November 30th, we'll go to the hospital and either induce or have a c-section, depending on what's best at the time for the baby and I. It's just astonishing that that's only 6 weeks from today.<br />
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Recently, we met with the anesthesiologist who will be present during our procedure. It was important to actually talk to him before hand so we could discuss certain complications that can occur related to my spinal cord injury, specifically called autonomic dysreflexia. Mom, Jacob and I all liked him a lot and were glad that he seemed very knowledgeable about my condition. He also did an X-ray to make sure he could do an epidural with the type of spinal fusion and hardware that I have in my back. All looked great.<br />
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Jacob and I had a really good time and learned a lot at our birthing class. Plus, it was at the hospital where I'll deliver and we got to see our beautiful rooms, with gorgeous views overlooking the North Georgia mountains. It all felt perfect. And, I must say that I was very proud when my sweet husband was the only Dad out of all there who was brave enough to get up and practice swaddling in front of the group. This little girl has no idea how lucky she is. <br />
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As we all expected, my mobility is getting more limited by the day. With determination and some help, though, I'm still maintaining my basic independence. I've started to cut out certain things that are becoming too difficult and have gotten extra creative with other daily living tasks. But these days, I'm finding more and more that even if I am able to do something - like get dressed, get out of the house, climb up into our SUV - I'm so exhausted by the time I'm finished that I have to lay back for a bit. Over the next weeks, I'll pay close attention to my body and my strength and reduce my schedule accordingly. For the time being, I'm hanging in there and being very thankful for those around me, as well as a sympathetic work environment.<br />
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Last week I had a little baby shower with some wonderful ladies I know and brought home a beautiful bassinet. I loved watching Jacob put it together. This weekend, we'll enjoy a co-ed baby shower with some family and friends. We can't wait to celebrate the coming arrival of our little girl!<br />
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I feel so fortunate that I'm experiencing this journey with the man of my dreams. I'm still in awe at how our love continues to grow each day and how comfortable and content we've felt during this entire process. I also continue to be amazed by the strength and potential of the human body. It's all an amazing miracle that I'm proud to share with you. Thanks for reading and have a happy week!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-2459745023618946412011-10-02T20:00:00.001-04:002011-10-02T20:00:41.274-04:00Getting Closer Everday...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">It seems like all the pieces are coming together. We've got two months left and the excitement is growing everyday. Last weekend, Jacob painted her room a beautiful "sun shower yellow." It's starting to feel like a nursery with the valence hung up, little hangers in the closet and a few of her things filling up some of the space. </span>My talented husband also started construction on the accessible crib. He's doing such a great job and I can't wait to see the finished product.<br />
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We had our first "non-stress tests" (or NST) this week. In the last two weeks or so, I've had some tightening in my abdomen that we think could possibly be some minor contractions. My doctor assured me that "Braxton Hicks" are pretty common and harmless unless they started to occur more frequently. Just to be safe and keep a good eye on things, we'll start going in twice a week for these NST's, which monitor for contractions, as well as the baby's activity. When I go in, I lay on the table (with plenty of pillows) for about 40 minutes to an hour with a belt strapped to my belly. A print out provides the information the doctor is looking for. The first of these tests went great and I loved it when my doctor came in at the end, looked at the read-out, smiled and shook her head and said, "This is one beautiful baby. Everything is perfect, you can go on home."<br />
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This week, I had a great time speaking to the first-year Occupational Therapy students at Brenau University. This is the third time I've spoken to that class about mobility issues and being a wheelchair user, but the first time I've had the opportunity to share insights as to what my experiences are while pregnant. I've had many occupational therapists make a real positive impact on me over the years, so I am glad to offer any knowledge that might help these students. They were pretty impressed that at 7 1/2 months along, that I can still lift myself up into our Chevy Trail Blazer, on my own. We're in the process of getting a new accessible vehicle for me, and I look forward to that more than I can say!<br />
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I feel so fortunate to still be feeling so great this far along. Aside from some spells of exhaustion, some occasional cramped feelings (especially after I eat), shortness of breath here and there, and a recent slight increase in muscles spasms - I can't help but consider myself lucky. Also, despite some extra time and effort it takes for me to accomplish daily tasks, I'm still managing to take care of myself pretty much as usual, and I'm thankful for that as well.<br />
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As Jacob lit our first fire today, I had a noticeable awareness that we are nearing the season that our daughter will join us. She'll be here before we know it. Next weekend, we'll attend our child birth class. In three weeks, we'll have the first of our baby showers. I have a feeling we'll be pretty busy from here on out. And I'm looking forward to every moment of it.<br />
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Remember, if you or someone you know has some questions for me, feel free to send an email <a href="mailto:kristina.rhoades@gmail.com">here</a>, and you may also share this post. Thanks for following along and until next time, Happy Fall!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-35929134762177091862011-09-21T19:33:00.002-04:002011-09-25T13:59:59.868-04:00Motivating the Cadets at Riverside Military Academy<div style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Today, I had the honor and privilege of speaking to the cadets at </span><a href="http://www.riversidemilitary.com/netcommunity/page.aspx?pid=474"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Riverside Military Academy</span></a><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"> in Gainesville, Georgia. I was invited to speak as a part of their character development series, after a referral from my friend and colleague, </span><a href="http://thecompletecommunicator.com/"><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Dr. Bill Lampton</span></a><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">. The experience was something I’ll never forget. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">My speech was entitled "It's All About the Attitude." I shared my story and discussed the importance of a positive attitude and overcoming challenges. This was the biggest audience I've had the opportunity to speak to, with over 350 cadets (grades 7-12), as well as staff members, faculty and some parents. Also, Jacob, my parents, and few of my colleagues from Brenau University were in attendance as honorary guests.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">And I must add, saying we were treated like honorary guests is an understatement. From the moment we arrived, everyone was so kind and definitely among the most respectful group of people I've had the pleasure of spending time with. After my speech, we were invited to stand next to the President, Dr. and Colonel Jim Benson, as the cadets performed an amazing Pass and Review. I was so impressed by the young men and so honored to stand with my husband beside the Colonel. </span><br />
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Unbelievably,
we are beginning the third trimester! I'm seven months pregnant and
lately, time seems to be flying by. In less than 12 weeks, if we hit
the due date, we'll be holding our baby girl. While everything around
me (and inside of me) confirms that this is reality, it all still feels
like a dream.<br />
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I am very noticeably pregnant to everyone
around me now, and I love it. I feel very natural as an expectant Mom
and I'm extremely proud to be carrying this baby in my belly. Don't get
me wrong - I have my moments of doubt in which I promise my husband
I'll be back to my fit self that was pre-pregnancy, however, most of the
time I feel healthy and beautiful. The picture above was taken two
weeks ago, already, so I'll post another picture this week to show how
quickly I'm growing.<br />
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If you've been following my blog,
you know that I've started making adjustments in my life to keep up with
my changing mobility. Well, remaining independent has gotten
increasingly tougher in the recent weeks. I'm having a lot of trouble
getting dressed, although I can still manage. Transferring into and out
of my wheelchair is getting pretty shaky and I can tell that I'm just
not as confident in my movements. I'm still taking it one day at a
time, though, and I'll seek extra help as I need it.<br />
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I'm
still feeling really good, all things considered. I am starting to get
much more tired again, so I'm paying attention to sleep in a little
when I can and give myself a break when needed. I also did some
research on pregnancy and spinal cord injuries and found that some of my
exhaustion could sometimes be related to a lack of oxygen. Many people
with spinal cord injuries at my level and above often have weaker
breathing than most people because of the lack of muscles supporting the
diaphragm. I read that this can be exaggerated for women who are
pregnant, as there is extra pressure from underneath. Plus, things are
simply getting crowded since I am almost always in a seated position (my
sources report that she is approximately 2 1/2 pounds and 15 inches
long!). So, when I notice I'm short of breath or extremely tired all of
a sudden, I've been making a point to stretch myself out some and take
some purposefully deep breaths. It seems to be helping.<br />
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We
haven't even had our baby showers yet and our home is starting to fill
up with baby stuff. It's so much fun going through it all and imagining
the days to come. And speaking of exciting, we absolutely love feeling
our little girl move all the time! She is so active, letting us know
she's awake and healthy each and every day with all kinds of little
movements. If I'm having a moment of tension or getting a little
frustrated about something, she always seems to move around a bit, to
bring a smile to my face and remind me what a miracle this is.<br />
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Thanks again for reading, friends. Please feel free to share
this and know that you can always <a href="mailto:kristina.rhoades@gmail.com">contact me</a> privately for more
questions. I appreciate the opportunity to share this experience. Have
a great week!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-55978699244655732782011-08-28T12:08:00.000-04:002011-08-28T12:08:23.745-04:00Under 15 Weeks To Go, And Counting!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-BQyiGlbGfJM/Tlpngh_kiLI/AAAAAAAAAM4/wFrKSWJMRh8/s1600/photo%25282%2529.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-BQyiGlbGfJM/Tlpngh_kiLI/AAAAAAAAAM4/wFrKSWJMRh8/s400/photo%25282%2529.JPG" width="296" /></a></div>Well, we're already over 25 weeks along, and getting close to the end of the second trimester. While in one hand it feels like she'll never get here, time also seems to be flying by. As you can see from the photo, my belly is growing at a rapid pace. And I'm still feeling fantastic.<br />
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Just in the last week and a half or so, I've started feeling her movements inside of me. If you read my last blog, I was only feeling her with my hand on the outside just a short time ago. Now, however, I can totally feel her moving around in there all the time. I've also seen my belly move with my own eyes from the outside. She's an active baby and I'm loving these amazing sensations. <br />
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I'll be seeing my doctor every two weeks until 30 weeks, then begin going weekly until the baby comes. We're still unsure if I'll feel contractions when they happen, so they'll be monitoring things closely to be safe. At last week's visit, we were both healthy and developing right on schedule. If she's anything like her Mama, this little girl will take her time and come when she's good and ready.<br />
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Last week we received a package from our friends at <a href="http://www.colourswheelchair.com/">Colours Wheelchair</a>. Jacob is getting concerned that I won't be as sturdy in the coming weeks and that I'll have a hard time catching myself if I lose my balance in a wheelie. So, despite my protests, we now have some wheelie bars (that prevent me from flipping over backwards) that we can put on if that time comes. I haven't worn wheelie bars since I was like 11 years old. They're kind of like training wheels for someone who's a professional cyclist. I'm going to feel like a total rookie with them on, but whatever keeps the baby safe is what I'm going to do.<br />
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Jacob and I are headed to the stores today to finish up our baby registries. We've done a lot online, but there's some stuff that we just need to check out in person. A baby sure comes with a lot of stuff! It's all so exciting!<br />
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Thanks for reading. Have a great week and as always, feel free to send me an <a href="mailto:kristina.rhoades@gmail.com">email</a> if you have any personal or more private questions I can answer! I'm happy to share!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-1266377192452176532011-08-12T18:27:00.000-04:002011-08-12T18:27:19.530-04:00She's Dancing in There!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-zk8hQSCHtsw/TkWd-57YlXI/AAAAAAAAAMU/i9G4fEnsk0U/s1600/photo.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-zk8hQSCHtsw/TkWd-57YlXI/AAAAAAAAAMU/i9G4fEnsk0U/s320/photo.JPG" width="240" /></a></div>When I first got pregnant, my sister-in-law told me about a really cool website - and I've discovered the iPhone app - called <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/">BabyCenter.com</a>. Every week, they send updates to my phone telling me what's happening with the baby, how she's developing and what changes are happening with my own body. It's really interesting and we look forward to receiving the little notifications each week. Today marked 23 weeks, and I was delighted by the first few sentences of our update this morning. It read, "Turn on the radio and sway to the music. With a sense of movement well developed by now, your baby can feel you dance." Wow. Now, that's what I'm talking about.<br />
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All my resources say that our baby is now probably almost a foot long and over a pound in weight. And it's obvious she's getting bigger and becoming more active because over the past week, both Jacob and I have felt her move on several occasions. While I'm not clearly feeling the movements inside of me (as I did the flutters early on), I do get a feeling which makes me instinctively place my hand on a particular spot on my belly and suddenly, I feel her dancing underneath the palm of my hand. I love it and I can't wait to feel her more as she grows. <br />
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We had a great visit at the doctor this week. My OBGYN agreed that I don't need to continue seeing the high-risk doctor, as my pregnancy is going so smoothly and the baby seems totally healthy. She shared some exciting news in that at 24 weeks - just a week away - the baby will be "viable." In other words, she would survive if she came anytime after that point. It amazes me that we've already come this far. Also, knowing that she would live, even if she came early, gives me this wonderful sense of peace that I can't quite explain. From here on out, I'll see the doctor much more regularly to monitor the progress.<br />
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Even with this belly that is getting quite big, I'm still managing to climb up into our Trail Blazer and my Mom's SUV without any assistance; however, I can tell that my days are numbered. I can barely touch my fingertips to the floor when I bend over. Hills are getting increasingly difficult to push up. Even dressing is becoming a little more of a challenge. But, all of this was to be expected. I know that I've got a while to go, and I haven't seen the toughest part yet. I'll continue to be creative and learn new ways to maneuver. Plus, like it or not, I'll have to accept the help of the people around me. I'm accustomed to doing things on my own and proving my independence, however, my sister-in-law recently gave me some more great advice. She said, "You need to ask for help because your pregnant, not because you're in a wheelchair." Thanks, sis. That makes sense. <br />
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Things are really getting exciting. At 5 1/2 months, we're spending free time working on the nursery, planning guest lists for baby showers and registering for all the necessary baby supplies. We're having so much fun and learning a lot.<br />
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Thanks for reading and please feel free to <a href="mailto:kristina.rhoades@gmail.com">get in touch</a> if you have any specific questions. I'm really enjoying sharing our journey with others and educating people on the extraordinary potential of the human body. Until next time...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-79864206736306114372011-07-28T15:51:00.000-04:002011-07-28T15:51:02.479-04:00Half-Way There!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-m-cKYMoT3ig/TjG9Tt56qjI/AAAAAAAAAKY/6ALHE6KdVX8/s1600/Belly+20+weeks" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="239" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-m-cKYMoT3ig/TjG9Tt56qjI/AAAAAAAAAKY/6ALHE6KdVX8/s320/Belly+20+weeks" t$="true" width="320" /></a></div>This week I dreamed of our baby girl for the very first time. I’m not sure if it was spending time with my little cousins over the past two weeks, or if it’s simply the fact that we’re half way through this pregnancy, but it was awesome. I remember being surrounded by family and friends and looking down into sparkling baby blue eyes. I woke up with the warmest feeling.<br />
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It’s hard to believe that I’m already 5 months – or 21 weeks – along. At last week’s appointment, the baby’s heartbeat was strong and steady, as were my vitals. As we move forward – just growing the baby, as they put it – they’ll want to see me a little more frequently to make sure nothing's going on that I can't feel. We got to meet the new midwife at my doctor’s office and we really liked her. She’s positive, happy and excited to be a part of a pregnancy that’s pretty unique. I love educating people, so I’m glad to have another person involved that’s eager to learn.<br />
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I continue to be amazed at how much more in love I am with Jacob as each day passes. He’s such a good man and I can’t begin to imagine doing this without him. With my growing belly, I’m finding moments where I’m less confident transferring into and out of my wheelchair or unable to reach something that I could manage before, and he’s always there to offer assistance – without making me feel “unable.” Plus, while my body’s changing and I’m experiencing random little side effects of being pregnant, he never stops making me feel beautiful. I’ve got to be the luckiest girl in the world.<br />
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We’re having a blast preparing the baby’s room. We’re still nailing down a theme – but knowing us, it will probably be something beachy. It’s exciting just sitting in the room and dreaming of creative ways to make things as accessible as possible for me. So many people are asking me questions that begin with “What are you going to do when…” or “How are you gonna…” and my answer is usually the same: We’re not sure, but we’re really excited to find out.<br />
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We’re loving every second of this and can’t wait for what’s to come. I hope that my experience can inspire other women to do what some think is impossible. Life is a miracle and the possibilities are endless with the right attitude.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-32214761539597947472011-07-07T13:27:00.003-04:002011-07-07T17:53:16.432-04:00A Precious Baby Girl<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ave0EMuR7Ck/ThXsOFHizCI/AAAAAAAAAKU/tR32DjbOgT0/s1600/Baby+Girl.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="304" m$="true" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ave0EMuR7Ck/ThXsOFHizCI/AAAAAAAAAKU/tR32DjbOgT0/s320/Baby+Girl.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Yesterday will go down in the books as one of my favorite days. We had a great appointment with the high-risk doctor and found out that we will be having a precious baby girl. The moment the nurse told us, it felt like my heart skipped a beat. It was surreal looking into my husband’s eyes and coming to the realization that we will soon have a <i>daughter</i>. <br />
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On top of the wonderful news of our baby girl, we also found out that both the baby and I are right on track and very healthy. Every time the nurse took a measurement during the ultrasound – of the brain, the spine, the heart and various bones – she would say, “perfect.” It was music to my ears. The high-risk doctor even indicated that he doesn’t feel like he needs to see me anymore. He feels that the baby and I are so healthy, that we don’t really need to be considered high-risk. That’s pretty amazing.<br />
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I’m still feeling really great, too. Aside from a rapidly growing belly, a little more back pain than usual, and more acne than I ever had going through puberty – I pretty much feel like my old self. I even got out to the lake this weekend and spent some time on the water and in the sunshine with some great people. Jacob and I have been super motivated – keeping ourselves busy cleaning out, organizing and building things around the house to prepare for our sweet baby.<br />
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In the coming weeks, I’ll have to become more and more creative as I hang on tight to my independence and try not to fully rely on everyone around me to help with small tasks, such as picking stuff up off the floor. Even transferring into and out of my wheelchair is beginning to become a bit more challenging. I know I can handle it, though. Between my dogs (who are both a big help to me), the awesome people around me and my drive to overcome challenges, I know this will be just another fantastic learning experience that makes me appreciate the abilities that I do have.<br />
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As we count the days to bringing our little girl into this family, I continue to thank my lucky stars for the love and partnership Jacob and I share. Furthermore, I am overwhelmed by and so grateful for the love and support we are receiving from our family and friends. There couldn't be a better environment to bring a child into. <br />
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Thanks so much for following our journey. If you know of anyone who would benefit from hearing our story, please feel free to pass this along - or you can email me <a href="mailto:kristina.rhoades@gmail.com">here</a>. Happy Summer!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-44704150969693160452011-06-19T15:01:00.000-04:002011-06-19T15:01:29.318-04:00Happy Father's Day!Today I'm celebrating what a great, hard-working Dad I have, and I'm also busy imagining what an amazing Dad my husband will be. He's already so involved with the pregnancy and supportive and excited about all that's ahead of us, I have no doubt in my mind that he'll pour an equal amount of energy into being a Daddy. Picturing him with our baby in his arms literally brings tears to my eyes.<br />
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I am now 15 weeks along and still feeling great. My symptoms are few and definitely things I can handle. I've had a few very dull headaches that seem to be a result of not getting enough fluids. Since I was dehydrated at my first doctor's visit, making sure I take in sufficient liquids is something I really have to stay on top of. I also notice that I get tired easier and prefer to go to bed earlier, but I'm happy to have much more energy than I did in the first trimester. An occasional sleepless night is something that I'm sure I can attribute to changing hormones. My occasional back pain and muscle spasms in my legs come and go, as normal, but don't seem to be any worse due to the pregnancy. Also, I'm definitely experiencing the "swelling" that I've heard so much about, and since it occurs mostly in my feet and ankles - where I can't feel, I just make sure to pay attention.<br />
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It's interesting and exciting to observe the changes that are happening within me. Some things are visible, including my growing belly, but others are more subtle. For example, my taste buds are different. I'm not quite craving anything out of the ordinary, but there are things that I used to love that just don't sound good anymore. Once in a while, it's even challenging picking something that does appeal to my appetite. Also, I can't help but laugh at how often I cry. Anything that touches me emotionally brings tears to my eyes. <br />
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I'm so happy and thankful to be spending the weekend with my husband. He's been working almost non-stop for the past two and a half weeks, even spending some time out of town. While I never like being without him, this time felt unusually tough. He's my rock and when he's not around, I feel like part of me is missing, especially now. When we were able to see each other, we'd steal some quite moments and lay on our backs and dream. There's so much to imagine and it's so fun sharing what each other are thinking of. <br />
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We can't wait for the next appointment with our perinatal doctor on July 6th, when there's a really good chance we will found out the sex of the baby. It seems like baby names are constantly running through my head in all sorts of combinations, and it will be nice to be able to narrow them down a bit. Also, I believe I've entered what people are calling the "nesting phase" because I'm so eager to start preparing the baby's room. <br />
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We patiently await the arrival of our sweet little baby and continue to be appreciative of all the people that are sending love, blessings and happy thoughts. Happy Father's Day to all the great Dads and Grandpas out there!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-36913859513155355602011-06-09T20:20:00.005-04:002011-06-13T10:51:31.233-04:00Happy and Healthy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0eCP9qmfSdk/TfYjIfWAWkI/AAAAAAAAAKQ/4T5SKcy7eYg/s1600/Baby+Bump.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-0eCP9qmfSdk/TfYjIfWAWkI/AAAAAAAAAKQ/4T5SKcy7eYg/s400/Baby+Bump.jpg" t8="true" width="400" /></a></div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="font-family: arial;">I’m having the time of my life. I am nearing 14 weeks into my pregnancy; just beginning the second trimester. Now, I’m not saying there aren’t moments that are a little challenging or times that I don’t feel my best, but for the most part, I feel fantastic. Many of the symptoms I experienced in the first trimester are just about gone. I have much more energy, almost no morning sickness and a decent appetite. I’m also more in love with my husband than I’ve ever been. I really can’t complain.<br />
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One of the reasons I know I’m feeling great is that we have been doing a lot to improve our health and lifestyle over the past two years. I’ve been seeing a naturopath/dietician, a personal trainer, and an acupuncturist/Chinese medicine practitioner. Along with my OBGYN, these wonderful people make up my wellness team, and I’m so thankful for them. I’ve learned so much about the benefits of natural and holistic approaches to health and in turn, have been able to make better lifestyle and nutritional choices for Jacob and I, as well as our dogs. Everybody’s feeling good!<br />
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In the last week, several people have noticed and commented on my “baby bump”. I can definitely tell my belly is growing and actually, I’m surprised it took this long, with my lack of stomach muscles. While I don’t mind starting to show - in fact, I feel very natural - I am very aware that soon, I’ll start needing to change the way I do things to maintain my independence. Luckily, I’m pretty creative in figuring out how to get things accomplished because I’ve had a lifetime of practice. Plus, Jacob is excellent at thinking outside the box and taking the best care of me.<br />
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One of the coolest and most recent developments is the fact that I’m feeling some definite “flutters” inside me. I know it’s early, but after poking around on some of my favorite baby and pregnancy websites, I’ve found that I’m not alone in the sensations I’ve been having. Other women report feeling these tiny movements or little jolts of energy from within their belly - even this early. I’ve noticed this a few times over the past week when I’m lying very still. I wasn’t quite sure I’d feel movement, do to my lack of feeling in the abdomen. So, the fact that I can already feel something is awe-inspiring, and so very exciting.<br />
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I’m still elated after meeting with the high-risk doctor. It was such a relief hearing from a doctor that obviously knows about spinal cord injuries and is very comfortable talking about my specific situation. He was so optimistic - expecting no complications throughout the pregnancy. I was so excited to hear that he also believed that the possibility for a normal delivery was really good. He explained that my muscles are active and strong and while I don’t have control, contractions would happen regardless. The power and resilience of the human body never fails to amaze me.<br />
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Keep an eye out for more updates, as well as some video we've been shooting. Thanks for reading and please feel free to send me an <a href="mailto:kristina.rhoades@gmail.com">email</a> if you have any specific, or maybe more personal questions. I’m grateful for this opportunity to share this experience with others.</span></span><span style="font-family: georgia;"></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-62496405273946782542011-05-31T18:58:00.005-04:002011-06-01T15:58:20.316-04:00We're Expecting...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--jJkJg2wYSA/TeV_OHz_HjI/AAAAAAAAAKA/lUSQpIuGqPs/s1600/BABY_9.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--jJkJg2wYSA/TeV_OHz_HjI/AAAAAAAAAKA/lUSQpIuGqPs/s400/BABY_9.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5613032391179181618" border="0" /></a>I am absolutely thrilled to announce that about six weeks ago, my husband, Jacob, and I found out that we are expecting our first baby. At this point in the pregnancy, I am just over 12 weeks along, and feeling really good.<br /><br />For those of you who don't know, Jacob and I have known each other since we were ten years old, have been best friends for well over ten years, and are getting ready to celebrate our third wedding anniversary. He is the best friend and partner that I could ever imagine. We have the kind of love and relationship that I used to dream about. I am so lucky to have him in my life and I couldn't imagine embarking on this journey with anyone else in the world.<br /><br />I always knew I wanted to have kids and as far as I can remember, the doctors always seemed to be optimistic about the possibility. And even with the unknowns, I really believed I could. At least, I believed in the potential. I have to admit, though, now that it's real and I've heard the rapid little heartbeat and seen an amazing little baby dancing in my womb... It's pretty unbelievable and astonishing. But, maybe every woman feels like this.<br /><br />I realize now that I did have tiny doubts hidden deep within me - also probably very common for many women. Over the past year and half, I started to even get a little anxious about it. Was something wrong with me that I couldn't feel? In fact, at the last visit before I found out that I was pregnant, the doctor suggested I begin getting some tests done to make sure everything was okay. I remember coming home and deciding to let go. It would happen if and when it was supposed to happen. I was not going to count days anymore. I was not going to do those tests. At least, not now. Not saying that I never would... just that things never work very well when you force them. Especially for me. I'm a go with the flow kind of girl and I knew I needed to reconnect with that. It was about six weeks later I took a positive pregnancy test.<br /><br />I don't think I've ever been so shocked in my life. I couldn't stop looking at the test. I happened to be home alone, so I had to call Jacob (I couldn't bare to wait a single moment). And I'm pretty sure I scared him half to death with my sobbing until I could manage to get the words out. Watching his joy, pride and excitement in this has been one of the most magical parts.<br /><br />While there are women out there with spinal cord injuries that have had babies, it sure isn't common. My specific injury makes the situation a little more unique. I am paralyzed completely below T-5 - or a little bit below my sternum, down. This means that I can not voluntarily move, control or feel anything below that point.<br /><br />I'm very excited to share this journey. While my doctors have little concerns and I'm in really good health, there will be unknowns. From unexpected surprises in the pregnancy, to learning how to live in a wheelchair with a pregnant belly, to figuring out when I'm in labor... this is going to be the most amazing and exciting experience of our lives. The most important thing is that we're surrounded by good doctors, wonderful alternative health practitioners, and the best family, friends and colleagues we could ask for.<br /><br />Please stay tuned to follow our story of bringing Baby Rhoades into this world.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-79497156750859706522010-07-25T14:15:00.005-04:002010-07-25T15:43:35.672-04:00Chicago and Our Nation's Capital<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gnEKm-W93zo/TEyTafOef0I/AAAAAAAAAFY/5duppOzsY9A/s1600/DSCF3041.JPG"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gnEKm-W93zo/TEyTafOef0I/AAAAAAAAAFY/5duppOzsY9A/s400/DSCF3041.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5497931328380632898" border="0" /></a>In the last couple weeks my husband, Jacob, and I have been on two amazing trips. We've met so many wonderful people and seen some sights that we'll never forget. We are loving every minute of it.<br /><br />July 8th through 12th, we were in Chicago for the Abilities Expo with our friends from LegaWear. It was a fantastic expo, with a really good turn out. I loved seeing the excitement in people when they realized they could get designer-quality clothes at a good value that actually fit! Regardless of a person's body type, disability or not, our custom-tailored suits, tuxedos and jeans are what so many of us have been searching for. We were also able to do several photo shoots, which were a blast. To check out the clothes and to see how to do your own measurements, you can create a profile at <a href="http://legawear.com/">LegaWear.com</a>. You can also check out the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/LegaWear/215389046608?ref=ts">LegaWear Facebook</a> page.<br /><br />One of the evenings, <a href="http://davidlega.com/en/">David Lega</a> and Andreas Stenderdahl (founders and owners of LegaWear), Jacob and I were able to catch a cab from Schaumberg, where the expo was being held, into the city. Chicago is beautiful. We walked around in our suits and the weather was perfect. I really enjoyed the detailed architecture on the buildings downtown and the pieces of history that were evident all around. Millennium park was very cool with the big mirrored skyline in Cloud Gate and fireflies dancing around. We got some great photos and spent some wonderful quality time.<br /><br />We also got to spend some time with our <a href="http://www.colourswheelchair.com/">Colours</a> family. For those of you who know the Team, Ernie, Hydred, Domonic and Amber represented. As always, we played, worked hard, looked good and laughed a lot.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gnEKm-W93zo/TEyQVKtdYvI/AAAAAAAAAFI/pdrwkw93PWk/s1600/DSCF3461.JPG"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gnEKm-W93zo/TEyQVKtdYvI/AAAAAAAAAFI/pdrwkw93PWk/s400/DSCF3461.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5497927938439209714" border="0" /></a><br />Last week, Jacob and I were fortunate enough to be asked to join the 20th Anniversary celebration of the Americans with Disabilities Act in our nation's capital, again with LegaWear. The experience is one that we'll never forget. We were officially there for the <a href="http://www.ncil.org/">NCIL</a> National Conference and Expo, but were able to fit so much more into the trip. The expo was great and again, we saw a lot of interest in our clothing. I was moved by the monuments and all that represents the best of our country. The Air and Space and Natural History Museums at the Smithsonian were awesome and I look forward to returning and seeing more.<br /><br />We were able to participate in a march to the capital to celebrate 20 years of the ADA, which was an amazing experience. At the NCIL Gala and <a href="http://www.aapd.com/site/c.pvI1IkNWJqE/b.5406299/k.FBCC/Spotlight.htm">AAPD</a> Justice for All event, we heard a keynote speech by the Attorney General, as well as words from Ted and Patrick Kennedy, among many others. So many moments felt surreal. We were inspired by the stories of extraordinary accomplishments and pride in our country. I'm looking forward to building some wonderful relationships and looking back on the beginning of many friendships as a result from our week in D.C.<br /><br />On top of these amazing experiences, David and Andreas have asked me to be the Director of National Sales for LegaWear. I am so honored for the opportunity to be a part of such an incredible company with such great potential. To have the chance to do all of this as a team with my husband makes it even more special. So, I'll be working on identifying some sales representatives around the country that are interested in selling our clothing. If you or someone you know is interested, please email me at kristina@legawear.com.<br /><br />In less than two weeks, we are off to California. I can't wait to be back in Cali, to see my family and closest friends and to spend some time at Colours! I'll keep you posted and thanks for reading.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-14283006541260980292010-06-27T14:24:00.002-04:002010-06-27T15:23:39.501-04:00Get ready for a journey!I started this blog with the sincere intention of writing much more regularly than I have. However, over the last few months, some exciting things have been happening that I think are important to share. In my initial posting, I had mentioned working as a spokesmodel for several companies. Well, since then, two of those relationships have become more formal. I am now one of two Southeast Regional Coordinator for <a href="http://www.colourswheelchair.com/">Colours Wheelchair</a>, as well as a member of Team Colours. That company is unlike any other. They make the best chairs I've ever ridden in - custom made for every user - and boast a company motto of "Life is all about the choices we make." It's a perfect fit for me and I'm proud to a part of the Colours family!<br /><br />I've also taken a more formal role with <a href="http://legawear.com/">LegaWear</a>. In May, I joined the company as one of four US Sales Representatives and Spokespersons. I've also been doing some modeling for them and they're using my images on their website, their trade-show banner, and on internal and external literature. They make custom-tailored clothing, including suits, tuxedos and jeans, at affordable prices, with a fantastic online purchasing experience. They are unique clothes for unique people. As with Colours, LegaWear is offering a service that is much needed and aiming to serve an audience that is under-served at best. The co-founders and owners are wonderful people that I'm also so proud to be affiliated with. Check <a href="http://davidlega.com/en/">David Lega</a>'s story by clicking his name. I guarantee you'll be inspired.<br /><br />In these new roles, my husband Jacob and I will be traveling more with these companies in the coming months. Traveling with a wheelchair is in itself an exciting experience, so I'd love to bring my readers along on my upcoming journeys. Plus, it would be fun to give you a glance into a day in the life of a Colours/LegaWear girl. So here's the schedule of events for the next couple months:<br /><br />Abilities Expo in Chicago - July 8-12<br />Trip to California, working with Colours & visiting family - August 6-15<br />Abilities Expo in Houston - August 26-30<br /><br />I'll keep you updated on those adventures and post more as I know of it.<br /><br />I'm still the General Manager of Brenau University's radio station, <a href="http://www2009.brenau.edu/index.cfm?objectid=37E59B01-65B3-FE26-0AEEEB373778D771">89.1 WBCX</a>. The station is doing awesome, adding new shows all the time. We're building a great line-up, comprised of a variety of music shows and wonderful talk shows - including health shows, interview and other interesting educational programs. If you want to hear me, you can catch the Ocean Breeze - playing a mix of traditional and modern beach music and reggae, and also on the Positive Perspective - a new show I co-host with two other ladies, providing good news and inspirational stories. You don't want to miss out on all we're doing there. Click <a href="http://www.publicbroadcasting.net/wbcx/ppr/index.shtml">here</a> to listen to the live stream, anytime, anywhere.<br /><br />I'm still totally loving the alternative health care I've been learning about. My team of health practitioners inspire me to be healthier all the time and I love them. I workout twice a week with my personal trainer<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></span>, see my naturopath about once a month and get acupuncture twice a month. It has been great. It feels right because the roots of these health approaches are connected with the natural around us, which we have seem to become disconnected from in today's society. Even more recently I've started learning a little bit about aromatherapy and it is just fascinating. I am still struggling with muscle spasms in my legs (below my spinal cord injury) but am on not a single pharmaceutical drug for them, which is pretty rare for someone who has been injured as long as I have (26 years). So, I look forward to sharing information about that as well and inspiring others to take action to feel better.<br /><br />My recent graduation with my Master's of Science in Organizational Leadership was so, very rewarding. I'm looking forward to where this journey takes me and I'm pleased you're interested in coming along! Talk soon...<br /><br />P.S. If you're interested in finding out more about a LegaWear suit or custom clothing - email me at kristina@legawear.com.<br /><br />Let's hook up on Twitter:<br />LegaWear - <a href="https://twitter.com/LegaWear">@legawear</a><br />Colours - <a href="https://twitter.com/colourswc">@colourswc</a><br />WBCX - <a href="https://twitter.com/891WBCX">@891wbcx</a><br />Personal - <a href="https://twitter.com/kristinarhoades">@kristinarhoades</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-82542613020093596052010-03-04T17:48:00.003-05:002010-03-04T18:37:32.275-05:00Another Spring Break in New Orleans<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gnEKm-W93zo/S5BDGqKiM8I/AAAAAAAAAE4/72p8PC89i1o/s1600-h/IMG_0027.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gnEKm-W93zo/S5BDGqKiM8I/AAAAAAAAAE4/72p8PC89i1o/s320/IMG_0027.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5444925731167679426" border="0" /></a><span style="font-family:georgia;">Last year, a group of students, staff and faculty from Brenau University (as well as my wonderful Mom and husband) made our way down to New Orleans to spend our spring break rebuilding homes. As it quickly climbed the ladder to become one of the most memorable life experiences for many of us, we decided to return this year. This time with a group of 17, we are working with Habitat for Humanity in Harvey, Louisiana.<br /><br />By far, one of the coolest parts about this year's trip is reconnecting with the homeowner whose home we worked on last year with St. Bernard Project. We were the first work group in her home, tasked with scrubbing and killing mold and sealing any and every piece of wood to prevent any mold in the future. The homeowner, Lisa, is a single Mom and grandmother and a police officer in St. Bernard Parish. She had been out of her home for nearly four years, but after the help if this wonderful organization, she was able to move back in about six months ago.<br /><br />Last night we went to see her house. Seven of us had worked on the home last year and were completely astonished at how beautiful it was. Although we spent a full week working in it, the house was hardly recognizable on the inside. Even better was the smile on Lisa's face. The positive attitude, appreciation and sense of humor reminded me why we fell in love with her last year.<br /><br />This year, working with Habitat, it is a different, but good experience. While we don't have contact with the homeowner and don't see the original home, we are seeing a different area and learning new skills. I can't believe how fast they are able to build a home. I also love that even with the very specific projects that we are working on, the site coordinators have managed to come up with all sorts of jobs that are perfect for two girls in wheelchairs.<br /><br />My favorite part about this city is the rich culture and the hope possessed by the people here. So many of them have every right to be angry, and while some may be, so many others choose to project the hope that they have and the gratitude they feel toward those coming to help rebuild, even when the help is coming so long after it was needed.<br /><br />On my way here, I got a tweet from a good friend of mine. She said that "the heart grows when you serve others." I don't know if anything else rings more true. Because of these experiences, I know that I will always seek out a way to help others in need, and especially my fellow Americans. This week, several people commented at how wonderful they think it is that people in wheelchairs are down here rebuilding homes. Hopefully, this notion inspires others to give what they can of their time and abilities to help this world become a better place. Maybe this little post will help as well.<br /><a href="http://www.habitat.org"><br />Habitat for Humanity</a><br /><a href="http://www.stbernardproject.org">St. Bernard Project</a><br /><br /></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610138310993673102.post-36937544720334518692010-01-08T19:39:00.000-05:002010-01-08T22:11:39.784-05:00An Introduction to Kristina Rhoades<span style="font-family:georgia;">My name is Kristina and I am 26 years old. I have an amazing, busy life that is filled with things to write about, but an important detail that you may want to know up front: I am a T-5 paraplegic with a complete spinal cord injury (SCI) and I use a manual wheelchair to get around. I got hurt (SCI speak for how the injury happened) when I was 10 months old. In other words, I’m a veteran at this and very comfortable in my skin and with the life I live.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">I have wanted to start a blog for a long, long time. As I said, my life is filled with events and observations that I want to share. Rather than trying to share my whole life story for background relevance, I’ll just start with what’s happening now and fill in details and history as needed. Here we go.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">In 2005 I held the title of Ms. Wheelchair California. It was one of the most amazing experiences of my life. Since then, I have been working for various companies as a spokesmodel. I also really enjoy telling people about the wonderful products and devices I use that make my life better. The companies include Colours Wheelchair, Bruno Independent Living Aids, and LegaWear. I have also modeled in a fashion show for Chloe Magazine. I love every second of it and hope to do much, much more.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">Currently, I work as the General Manager of Brenau University’s radio station, 89.1 WBCX. I host a show on Monday afternoons called the Ocean Breeze. I love being on the radio, doing interviews and allowing the students and wonderful community volunteers to be creative with their shows and the content we offer. I am also in the process of completing my MS in Organizational Leadership from Brenau. I graduate in May.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">One of the topics that will come up a lot here is natural health - including mind, body and spirit. Recently, I began seeing a Naturopath and working out with a personal trainer. I can’t recall the last time I was this healthy. After all these years of being in a wheelchair and struggling with the various health problems that are often attached to a spinal cord injury, it is such a liberating feeling to finally have a doctor that is interested in the causes of the problems I encounter, versus simply trying to cover up the symptoms.<br /><br />Working out with my personal trainer is also making a huge impact on my quality of life. Not only do I feel great because of how in shape I am, but I am engaging muscles and stretching in ways I didn’t know I could. We are currently tackling other challenges that I face, such as muscle spasms in my legs. These natural approaches coupled with a positive attitude, could prevent me from having dangerous procedures and surgeries and being on so many prescription medications. My hope is that more people in my position can begin to live this way and feel better with me.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">Recently, my sweet husband, Jacob, and I have decided that a baby is in our future. While I am physically able to have a baby, doctors have informed me that pregnancy is often a different experience for each woman with a spinal cord injury. My doctor and I have planned, when the time comes, to attempt a natural labor and have a c-section scheduled, should it be necessary. I am currently exploring the possibility of a documentary. Because there is such a small population of women with spinal cord injuries, I feel like it would be beneficial to share my journey. </span>It could also offer awareness for people that are just simply curious.<br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;">So, these are some of the high points of what’s now in my life. I look forward to sharing my experiences on the topics I’ve touched on and others. Stay tuned and thanks for reading!</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17186162854605333484noreply@blogger.com2